OnE SiDeD lOvE AfFaIr

[bluejeans]

How can a relationship survive if only one is trying to make the connection work and the other one just took it for granted?....

On my case in every relationship i'm into...i always give all my best to stay and keep the relationship intact and working.....so it really hits me hard if that love of mine won't be equally met or worst won't be met at all..


Cases of ONE SIDED LOVE AFFAIR...is a reality care to Share?......

[bluejeans]

Loving someone too much might be a venom running in our veins, we'll never know when will it kills us....

Loving someone too much is not a sin nor a fatal craziness....sometimes when we fell in love we tend to give it all.....we tend to focus on him alone.....forgetting our own pride, self respect and principles....and when this love ends we'll be suicidal or so devastated that we let ourselves suffer much..... worst is that we keep on blmaing ourselves for the failure of the relationship......

One sided love affair is never healthy...it won't help bring the best in us.....think not only twice or thrice if ur in such commitment...don't lose your identity don't lose urself, being a martyr never helps it will just pin u down until you're left with nothing but heartache.....love justly and fairly....never go overboard.....leave something for yourself....

[spy lily]

One sided love affair is never healthy...it won't help bring the best in us.....think not only twice or thrice if ur in such commitment...don't lose your identity don't lose urself, being a martyr never helps it will just pin u down until you're left with nothing but heartache.....love justly and fairly....never go overboard.....leave something for yourself....

as you said it's not healthy so let him/her go..relationships are based on compromise; not control or self sacrifice.. it won't work no matter how hard you tried.. believe me.

lots of choices out there, just across the horizon..open your eyes..

[MarikO]

One sided love affair is never gonna work..In my case, we've love each other for a long time..but after a huge problem came up, he decided to leave and unlove me..On my part, I still love him pero did I persuade him to love me again??No..why? because,its gonna be like banging myself on the wall each time I would wanna show my love for him and I am not ready to do that.

I am not ready to become a pathetic creature in his existence and I was not ready to become a doormat..I might have love him with all that I am but with him leaving me comes acceptance that we're not gonna be together anymore...Love is give and take between two lovers...Love wont take place if its gonna be full of sacrifces from the one party who loves.